Charly Boy, Daughter In Social Media War Over Post On Her Sexuality

Charly Boy Oputa and his lesbian daughter,Dewy,were locked in a
war of words on the social media on Friday after the entertainer
said he was in total support of the LGBTQ community and he had Dewy
Oputa to thank for the experience of being a father to one.

“As a matter of fact, I now look back and find that I am
grateful for the experience of having a gay or lesbian child,” the
69-year-old activist said on his Instagram handle.

Expressing love to Dewy, who lives in Atlanta, United States of
America, Charly Boy said, “All I want is my Princess’ love,
happiness, and success in her life. Anything else is secondary. I
told myself that I will get through this, and many months later I
did.”

When Dewy came out to him, Charly Boy recounts him having mixed
feelings before accepting her decision.

He said, “Nothing can come between me and any of my beautiful
children.”

“It is stupid to even think that having a gay child means that
parents have failed. That’s some pedestrian thinking. Me, I love my
gay daughter o, I love you Dewy,” he stressed four years after
receiving the news of his daughter’s sexuality.

Recounting the experience from the day he received the news,
Charly Boy, who is famous for being a crossdresser and
non-conformist, said it was tough because he had so many thoughts
running through his mind but decided to go with the happiness of
his daughter.

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“About 4yrs ago, my last Princess of the house called me from
America, from her tone I was bracing up for whatever she was about
to tell me especially when she kept saying to me, “daddy promise me
you won’t get mad at me, or give up on me,” he began.

“I am close with my children and I love them to bits. They are
my friends. But I wasn’t really ready for the “breaking news” my
Princess Dewy had for me.

When my child told me she is gay, a lesbian, I experienced a
range of emotions, during that phone conversation.

“So many things went through my mind, one of them included
self-blame (“Did I do something wrong?”) (“The child I thought I
knew and loved no longer exists.”), worry (“Will my child be
discriminated against?) religious confusion (“Is my child damned to
spend eternity in hell?”), and stigma (“What will people think of
my child? Of me?”),” he expressed.

The non-conformist was quick to say he had to accept the news
without resentment because he didn’t want a strained relationship
with his daughter over her sexuality. “However, I kept pinching
myself to calm down because I didn’t want my baby to shy away from
me or for us to have a strained relationship. I loved my baby far
too much. I first took a deep breath. And all I could say was, “are
you sure?” I was hoping it was a prank but it was happening in
real-time.

“Even though I was unusually calm through that conversation, my
mind was wandering in all directions.”

Dewy:’ I got kicked out of the house in 2017’

It did not take long for Dewy to respond to her father’s
‘expression of love’.

Writing on her Twitter account @DEWYOPUTA,she said:” Gaslighting
at its finest. It’s quite unfortunate that my life is nothing but
content I just can’t wrap my head around the hypocrisy. All this
for a drop of clout,attention and praise from strangers just to
feed your ego.

”Honestly I was going to just free this situation because I’m
used to this toxicity and mentally I’m tired but after seeing this
i can’t stomach this pretentious behaviour anymore because on a
normal level this man no Dey even pick my call.

”2017 I got kicked out of the house and was damn near homeless
and if not for my friend I wouldn’t have even had food or
Shelter!

“Fortunately for me, I had a return ticket to come back to
Atlanta, I moved back here with zero dollars not even knowing where
I was going to live or where my next meal was going to come
from!

“I was literally living couch to couch and lord knows how
tirelessly I worked so I could have my own stability!

“You didn’t even know if your daughter was dead or alive
anything could have happened to me.”

Charly Boy Oputa and his lesbian daughter,Dewy,were locked in a
war of words on the social media on Friday after the entertainer
said he was in total support of the LGBTQ community and he had Dewy
Oputa to thank for the experience of being a father to one.

“As a matter of fact, I now look back and find that I am
grateful for the experience of having a gay or lesbian child,” the
69-year-old activist said on his Instagram handle.

Expressing love to Dewy, who lives in Atlanta, United States of
America, Charly Boy said, “All I want is my Princess’ love,
happiness, and success in her life. Anything else is secondary. I
told myself that I will get through this, and many months later I
did.”

When Dewy came out to him, Charly Boy recounts him having mixed
feelings before accepting her decision.

He said, “Nothing can come between me and any of my beautiful
children.”

“It is stupid to even think that having a gay child means that
parents have failed. That’s some pedestrian thinking. Me, I love my
gay daughter o, I love you Dewy,” he stressed four years after
receiving the news of his daughter’s sexuality.

Recounting the experience from the day he received the news,
Charly Boy, who is famous for being a crossdresser and
non-conformist, said it was tough because he had so many thoughts
running through his mind but decided to go with the happiness of
his daughter.

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“About 4yrs ago, my last Princess of the house called me from
America, from her tone I was bracing up for whatever she was about
to tell me especially when she kept saying to me, “daddy promise me
you won’t get mad at me, or give up on me,” he began.

“I am close with my children and I love them to bits. They are
my friends. But I wasn’t really ready for the “breaking news” my
Princess Dewy had for me.

When my child told me she is gay, a lesbian, I experienced a
range of emotions, during that phone conversation.

“So many things went through my mind, one of them included
self-blame (“Did I do something wrong?”) (“The child I thought I
knew and loved no longer exists.”), worry (“Will my child be
discriminated against?) religious confusion (“Is my child damned to
spend eternity in hell?”), and stigma (“What will people think of
my child? Of me?”),” he expressed.

The non-conformist was quick to say he had to accept the news
without resentment because he didn’t want a strained relationship
with his daughter over her sexuality. “However, I kept pinching
myself to calm down because I didn’t want my baby to shy away from
me or for us to have a strained relationship. I loved my baby far
too much. I first took a deep breath. And all I could say was, “are
you sure?” I was hoping it was a prank but it was happening in
real-time.

“Even though I was unusually calm through that conversation, my
mind was wandering in all directions.”

Dewy:’ I got kicked out of the house in 2017’

It did not take long for Dewy to respond to her father’s
‘expression of love’.

Writing on her Twitter account @DEWYOPUTA,she said:” Gaslighting
at its finest. It’s quite unfortunate that my life is nothing but
content I just can’t wrap my head around the hypocrisy. All this
for a drop of clout,attention and praise from strangers just to
feed your ego.

”Honestly I was going to just free this situation because I’m
used to this toxicity and mentally I’m tired but after seeing this
i can’t stomach this pretentious behaviour anymore because on a
normal level this man no Dey even pick my call.

”2017 I got kicked out of the house and was damn near homeless
and if not for my friend I wouldn’t have even had food or
Shelter!

“Fortunately for me, I had a return ticket to come back to
Atlanta, I moved back here with zero dollars not even knowing where
I was going to live or where my next meal was going to come
from!

“I was literally living couch to couch and lord knows how
tirelessly I worked so I could have my own stability!

“You didn’t even know if your daughter was dead or alive
anything could have happened to me.”